BY DR. KENNY CAMACHO / SERMON DELIVERED 24 SEPTEMBER 2023 FOR REVOLUTION CHURCH
Today, we’re continuing in our new series by looking at how we grow together. In the previous two weeks, we’ve been looking at how healthy communities are created. In Week 1, we explored the kind of culture of invitation, patience, and curiosity that forges an authentic church. And in Week 2, we looked at the core values of diversity, grace, and submission which are necessary for being the kind of church where people stay. But this week, we are shifting our focus to what a healthy church community exists to do… and the short answer, of course, is that healthy churches exist to grow! They “bear spiritual fruit,” as the Bible puts it… and that fruit is the evidence that we use to confirm we’re on the right track. But what does that “spiritual fruit” really look like? Is it as easy to recognize as we might think? And how do we cultivate an actual imagination for growing that fruit–and recognizing it when we see it!–together?
Let’s start by getting some of the problems on the table. For most people exploring religious faith, what they’re hunting is intensely personal: they sense something missing in their lives, they are wrestling with guilt, or they are working through a difficult season and they come to church searching for hope and direction. Now, that’s not true of everyone! Some folks walk through the doors because they have a partner who is religious and they want to support them. Some folks come because they are looking for a moral support system for their children. And some folks come seeking deeper friendships. But particularly in American culture, the starting point for our imagination about religion still tends to be about us: “I want to grow, or change, or become a better parent or friend.” The health of the community of the church is what they’re counting on more than something they see themselves as contributing to.
I don’t think this is wrong! But it creates tension in any church’s mission. We see the evidence of this tension in how most churches conceive of their ministries and programs, which often focus on personal growth through things like Bible study, daily devotionals, and guides for private prayer. We have teams where we invite folks to serve… but we “sell” volunteering by emphasizing how it is good for you. American churches (including this one!) often strive to meet individual hunger with individualized care. The health of the community, then, is imagined as the inevitable byproduct of the health of individuals. This is why most churches evaluate their communal health using things like “butts in seats” and “dollars in the offering box”: the idea is that, if people are personally happy, they’ll keep showing up and donating to the ministry.
But is this actually how we’re supposed to be thinking about “growth”? Is it a model the Bible supports, or one that Jesus preaches? Are the “spiritual fruits” we’re looking for really higher attendance and deeper pockets?
After all, Jesus’s personal ministry certainly challenges this model! Over and over again, Jesus turns away from crowds to focus on his 12 closest friends… and the one time Jesus actually hangs out near an offering box, he says the poor widow who puts in two coins has given more than the richest Jews in Jerusalem. So, how can we discover a deeper imagination for what “growing” looks like beyond how you and I get closer to God as individuals?
We just have one focal text this morning, and it comes from Paul’s second letter to the Christians in the city of Corinth. The Corinthian community was known for its spirits of individualism and competition: the Christians there struggled with the desire to find out what following Jesus could do for them. This doesn’t mean they are bad people! But it means some significant rewiring in their imaginations for communal growth were necessary. So, what does Paul say? He writes,
For the love of Christ urges us on, because we are convinced that one has died for all; therefore all have died. And he died for all, so that those who live might live no longer for themselves but for the one who for their sake died and was raised. From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view; even though we once knew Christ from a human point of view, we no longer know him in that way. So if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; look, new things have come into being! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and has given us the ministry of reconciliation; that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting the message of reconciliation to us. So we are ambassadors for Christ, since God is making his appeal through us; we entreat you on behalf of Christ: be reconciled to God. For our sake God made the one who knew no sin to be sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
2 Corinthians 5:14-21
This is heady stuff! But I think we can learn a lot here if we break it down. The key concept is reconciliation… but what does that mean? Please forgive me, but it’s etymology time!
We should start with the root here, which is “conciliate.” You see this word in terms like “conciliatory,” or even “council”: it means, literally, “to call together.” For Paul and other Greek speakers of the first century, the sense was to “bring to harmony.” So, the job of the Christian–and the job of the Church–is to be “harmonic”… and to “call to harmony.”
This makes sense! Like we said at the start, if a person is feeling out of sync, or out of harmony, with God or with their spouse or with their lives, the Church is a place they can be drawn to which can foster that harmony. The individual seeker finds purpose. But the ministry Paul says we’re all given isn’t a ministry of conciliation… it’s a ministry of reconciliation! What does that “re” mean? I bet you already know!
Right: it means “to do again.” so, what is Paul’s point? His point is that God is bringing back together things that have been separated in the world. This means that if the individual within the church stays an individual, reconciliation hasn’t actually happened… because separating out from a healthy community was the original problem. You can’t build a healthy church that’s composed of uniquely healthy people–you have to bring people together to (re)discover what is actually healthy.
There are 4 relationships–4 “conciliations”–that have been broken in this passage and need to be “reconciled”: your relationship with God, your relationship with yourself, your relationship with others, and your relationship with the world. These aren’t new things you need to discover! They are old, original things you need to find again.
Your relationship with God, we believe as Christians, is broken by sin… but sin is less about “doing bad things” than it is about “forgetting how to do right things.” You and I are created good–we’re created as God’s children. But, like children often do, we become willful and rebel against the harmony and relationships we are made for. This looks like setting out for ourselves, believing we know better, and elevating ourselves as the primary focus of our lives. “Me first” thinking. Most of us do this, however, not because we think we’re awesome–I’ve yet to meet someone who actually believes that about themselves–but because we become afraid that if we don’t take care of ourselves, no one else will. The “reconciliation power” of the Gospel is that Jesus chooses to identify with us, to suffer with and for us, in order to answer that fear. By dying and living again, Jesus shows us that, no matter what befalls us, we cannot actually be separated from God’s love. And so, if we can bring ourselves to let go of our fear and the rebellion it leads to, we can be reconciled in that relationship with God: we can go back to a place of trusting Him, and find rest there. That’s Reconciliation #1.
The idea here is that Reconciliation #1 ought to lead to Reconciliation #2, which is a right relationship with ourselves. If we can learn to trust God’s love for us, His desire to pursue us no matter what, we can begin to see ourselves the right way, too… which is as people worthy of being loved. That doesn’t mean we’re the center of the universe! It means we’re a beloved part of the universe. We aren’t in competition with each other for God’s affection: it is freely and infinitely given. If we can learn to feel that way about ourselves, Paul says we are able to “no longer live for [ourselves] but for the one who for [our] sake died and was raised.”
Reconciliation with ourselves, then, leads to reconciliation with others: if we don’t have to prove anything to God–if God loves us unconditionally–we don’t have to compete with our neighbors to prove we’re more deserving than them. We don’t have to compete with anyone! And, freed from that sense of rivalry, we can learn to see others as God also sees them. We can value a whole person–their strengths and weaknesses, their gifts and their flaws, their good decisions and bad decisions–and feel deep love for them. That empathy is one of the “conciliations” we lose over the course of our lives, where (once again) fear takes hold and separates us from each other. But, if we are alive in Christ, we can be brave.
Reconciliation #3–with others–then opens the door for Reconciliation #4: with the world. Being alive to God, alive to ourselves, and alive to our neighbors enables us to be loving caretakers of God’s Creation. In fact, to join God in that work: to see our environment selflessly, not looking for what it can give to us, but instead looking for what it gives, period. We can be nurturers again, as the Bible says Adam and Eve once were, who cultivate beauty and health and growth.
All of this is made possible because God is committed to the work of reconciliation: He seeks to bring us and all things back to harmony with His intentions. He does this at a huge cost… and His vision for us, as His Church, is to be ambassadors of that reconciliation in a broken world. Paul says this is the “ministry” that has been entrusted to us… and, if that is the case, it is the key to recalibrating and reimagining what in the world “church health” actually means! How small things like “butts in seats” and “deep pockets” seem compared to this calling. And how ensnared in those old fears (and the selfishness those fears lead to) it is.
So, if reconciliation is our ministry, what does that mean for how we grow together here at Revolution? How can any of this–which might seem so abstract–actually shape and influence the culture of our little church in Annapolis? I think it offers us the chance to embrace 3 values and remember 1 truth. Here they are:
The first value is authentic vulnerability. This is something we have to grow: it’s not something any of us can do on our own and expect it to still work! We have to be naked about our fears… because, as what Paul wrote to the Corinthians exposes, it’s our fears that lead us to separate from one another, get into competition with each other, and hide our weaknesses from each other. Certainly, authentic vulnerability starts here on the stage: our worship leaders need to sing from the heart and not out of a desire to impress you. The smiles from our greeters and volunteers need to emanate real affection and not shallow welcome. Our kids volunteers need to allow themselves to really care for your children. And I need to be honest about who I am: weaknesses and all. But the culture we need to create isn’t limited to people in visible roles: you need to face your fears and choose vulnerability, too. What we do can foster that… but we can’t do it for you! And if vulnerability and authenticity are going to be part of our church culture, they have to spread like wildfire among us. We all have to choose them, or they won’t be real. Does that make sense?
The second value is gracious acceptance. This has to go hand in hand with vulnerability… or vulnerability will wither on the vine. It also has to begin with a deep understanding among us that we are graciously accepted. We’re not on “thin ice” with God: He loves us plentifully and overwhelmingly. He’s not “mad” at us. He’s not waiting to call us out when we stumble. The Bible shows us a God who longs for us to rest in His affection for us–who grieves the fear that keeps us turned away from Him, and will do anything to place a hand on our cheek and invite us to look at Him again. That same level of grace and love has to be everywhere here if we’re going to be ambassadors of it for others. That’s the thing about being an ambassador, right? You can’t represent a country you don’t already belong to. To offer reconciliation, we have to believe in it, and experience it. Church communities are meant to be the places where that happens: where you are lovingly and patiently accepted.
A long time ago, I said that a helpful litmus test for any church is to imagine the feelings of a sixteen year old, who has just learned she is pregnant: is your church the first or the last place she might want to go? But the same test holds if we imagine someone who has just been released from jail, or who is mired in addiction, or whose marriage is falling apart: do we do justice to the love we feel from God by extending it just as passionately and acceptingly towards each other?
The third value is patient challenge. The point of all that authentic vulnerability, and the opportunity created by all that gracious acceptance, is to be nurtured towards change. None of us has everything figured out! We all need to continue being reconciled to God, to ourselves, to others, and to the world. And the key to that sort of growth is accepting challenges that push us… within a community that is patient with us as we struggle. Here’s a not-so-spiritual illustration of what that looks like:
As many of you know, I was a smoker for twenty years. Now, for most of that time, I wasn’t very authentic or vulnerable: I hid it from you, and I hid it from others. But I didn’t hide it from everyone! A few of you went on many-a walk with me at night while I puffed away. But eventually, I realized that I wasn’t taking good care of myself, or loving myself the way God loves me. And I accepted the challenge to change. I even told some of you about it– “I think it’s probably about time to quit”; “I don’t want to be a smoker at 40.” Now, if you hadn’t shown me gracious acceptance all along, I don’t think I would have shared this with you! Even getting this far depended on God nudging me to be vulnerable, and God nudging you to tolerate my unhealthy behavior. But if things had ended there–with me being honest, and you loving me anyways–things probably would never have changed. What it took for me to change was your willingness to keep asking me about it: to remind me of my goals, and to check in with me… while still being willing to go on a walk with me, even when I was wrestling. The push-and-pull of our relationship, and your investment in me, kept the flame of change alive. And it also gave me something to be excited about when I quit: I was eager to tell you! We need challenge and patience: folks in our lives who desire our health… but who see our wellbeing as connected to their own wellbeing, too.
That’s the last big truth we need to remember: communal growth requires a community mindset. Our health is connected. We can’t run out ahead of each other! We hang back, love each other, encourage one another, challenge one another, and live graciously all the while. That spirit has to be at the center of our church… because it’s a spirit of reconciliation. It flows from believing we can be whole again because we were made to be whole. It’s not something we race to achieve, it’s something we rediscover.
For a long time, I thought the “self-sacrifice” we’re called to embrace as Christians was about obliterating myself for the sake of others. But it’s not: it’s exactly the thing Jesus models for us, when he steps back from his own race in order to join us in ours. It’s not giving up my goals… it’s sharing them with you, aligning them with yours, allowing them to be reconciled with what we are called to together. I can’t parse out my health from your health, or my growth from your growth: we’re one body, and we grow together. If you’re not yet reconciled, I can’t move on without you and still claim to be an “ambassador of reconciliation”!
So this is my prayer and our challenge: to truly be one. To see ourselves as parts of this church body. And to discover the joy in that partnership God designed us for. Can we do this together?